Raef Al Hasan Rafa: The Musical Odyssey

In the ever-evolving landscape of the Bangladeshi music scene, few names resonate with as much intensity and authenticity as Raef Al Hasan Rafa. The mastermind behind the genre-defying band “AvoidRafa,” Rafa stands as a symbol of raw talent, relentless determination, and creative innovation. From soulful vocals to electrifying drum solos, Rafa has carved a path that bridges underground roots with mainstream success. In this exclusive TINDS feature, we dive into his musical journey—layer by layer—to uncover the man, the myth, and the melody.

TINDS: Can you tell us a little about your childhood?

Rafa: I grew up in Dhaka, mostly around Dhanmondi. Life was simple. My dad worked abroad, so I spent most of my childhood with my mother. It was like any regular 90s kid’s life—nothing too dramatic.

TINDS: What first sparked your interest in music?

Rafa: My elder brother Saadi was a huge influence. He’s a doctor but also a guitar tutor and was deeply involved with band culture in Bangladesh. Around grade 7, I unexpectedly discovered my deep connection with music. It just clicked—almost like a gift from God.

TINDS: Do you remember your first performance on stage?

Rafa: Absolutely. It was during an underground show at the Indian Cultural Centre, Dhanmondi. I was surrounded by legends like Artcell and Aurthohin. Sumon bhai used to run this jam pad, and that’s where it all began.

TINDS: What are three words that describe you best?

Rafa: Patient, Stubborn, and Gifted.

TINDS: What’s your worst trait?

Rafa: I can’t say no. I end up overcommitting, which sometimes makes me a pushover.

TINDS: How many instruments can you play?

Rafa: I’m self-taught in drums, guitar, and bass. I also play keyboard, harmonica, and some string instruments—around 6-7 in total.

TINDS: How did you choose music as your career, especially given societal expectations?

Rafa: It wasn’t easy. Coming from a family of doctors, I had to push hard against norms. I even got an offer from Berklee College of Music, but studying music abroad was too expensive. I chose to earn first, then pursue my dream. My family only realized I was in Authohin after they saw me on TV!

TINDS: Tell us the story behind the name ‘AvoidRafa.’

Rafa: “Aurthohin” had to cancel a show due to legal issues, and I was asked to fill in. My friend wanted to call it “Rafa & Friends” but I didn’t like it. I quickly coined “AvoidRafa”—a bit ironic and playful, and it stuck.

TINDS: If not music, what profession would you have chosen?

Rafa: I’d probably be a psychologist or an astrophysicist. I’m deeply drawn to both.

TINDS: Is it essential to be in a band to succeed in the music industry?

Rafa: Not really. If you have that ‘X-factor’ and people like your work, solo or group doesn’t matter. The audience decides your worth.

TINDS: What do you think of the evolution of Bengali music?

Rafa: It’s fantastic! We’re about 20 years behind global trends, but we’re catching up quickly. The music scene is becoming more inclusive and innovative.

TINDS: What major struggles have you faced in life and music?

Rafa: In our country, no one becomes an “adult” before 25 in the eyes of society. That mindset blocks progress. Also, I faced criticism for choosing music, especially from a religious standpoint. But I stuck to my path.

TINDS: Any defining moment that changed your life?

Rafa: Getting that Berklee offer and turning it down taught me a lot. It shaped my understanding of financial responsibility and long-term goals.

TINDS: What do you think is missing in the music industry here?

Rafa: Proper legal awareness. Musicians must understand copyright, royalties, and ownership. Many of us still don’t protect our work legally.

TINDS: What’s your message for upcoming musicians?

Rafa: Be serious. Music is a business and an art at the same time. Have patience, know the risks, protect your work legally, and most importantly—keep going even when it’s hard. What you plant now will bloom later.

Raef Al Hasan Rafa is more than just a musician—he is a pioneer in the Bangladeshi music arena. From jam pads in Dhanmondi to sold-out shows under the name AvoidRafa, his journey speaks volumes about passion and perseverance. His advice to young musicians is beyond inspiration—it’s a blueprint. Rafa continues to inspire millions with his versatility and unshakeable spirit, proving that music isn’t just a profession—it’s a purpose.

Find Raef Al Hasan Rafa: Instagram: Raef Al Hasan Rafa YouTube: AvoidRafa Official Spotify: AvoidRafa